With the new year kicking off, I’ve been hearing from so many friends and followers who have set solo traveling as one of their goals. As someone who’s explored the world on her own, I’m here to tell you: it’s an incredible experience! But, let’s be real—it’s important to prioritize your safety, especially as a woman of color.
Most of the places I’ve been are genuinely safe, but there are a few precautions I take to cure my paranoia (and ensure peace of mind). Here are my top 5 safety tips for women of color traveling solo:
1. Make It Look Like You’re Not Alone
When booking a hotel, I always list two adults in my reservation—even if it’s just me. This creates the impression that I’m traveling with someone, so hotel staff and others assume I’m not alone.
I also wear a fake wedding ring and, if someone asks, “Are you here alone?” I respond confidently with, “No, my husband is meeting me later.” If needed, I’ll even add a family member’s name to my room reservation. Unfortunately, in some places, men only respect your boundaries when they believe another man is involved.
2. Pack a Door Stopper for Extra Security
I never leave home without a small, portable door stopper. Once I’m inside my hotel room, I slide it under the door to ensure it can’t be opened from the outside. The only downside? It locks everyone out—and in. So, if you find yourself in danger inside the room, it could take extra time to open the door. That said, it’s an effective and easy way to feel more secure while sleeping or showering.
3. Use Trusted Transportation
When I’m in countries where safety can be a concern, I always book airport transfers or taxis through my hotel or other trusted sources. Yes, it’s more expensive, but I won’t compromise when it comes to my safety.
In places with reliable public transit (like many first-world countries), I’ll often take the metro instead of a taxi. It’s usually cheaper, safer, and a great way to blend in with locals—just make sure to research your route beforehand to avoid looking lost.
4. Stay Private on Social Media
One of the biggest mistakes travelers make is oversharing online. Stop telling everyone everything all the time! Avoid posting your real-time location on Instagram or sharing your full itinerary publicly. You never know who’s watching or what their intentions might be.
Instead, post photos and updates after you’ve left a location. This way, you can still share your adventures without putting yourself at unnecessary risk.
5. Trust Your Instincts and Speak Up
If something feels off, trust your gut. Whether it’s an overly friendly stranger, an unlicensed taxi, or a sketchy neighborhood, don’t second-guess yourself. Change your plans, leave the situation, or ask for help if you need it. Your intuition is one of your most powerful tools—use it!
Final Thoughts
Solo traveling as a woman is empowering and life-changing, but it comes with unique challenges. By taking these precautions, you’ll be able to focus on the joy of discovering new places and cultures without constantly looking over your shoulder.
Remember, safety isn’t about paranoia—it’s about preparation.
Safe travels,
Robyn
Great tips! I especially like the tone about booking a reservation with two adults.
Thank you! The trick is to always make it look like you’re not alone. Even when you are lol